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They just want to be loved...

Thursday, June 19, 2008 09:41 by Charles B. Lowers

What's a 16-year-old public school girl supposed to do to find love?  That's right, get a 24-year-old homeless guy to impregnate you.  Well, everyone is doing it!

Evidently, everyone is doing it at Gloucester High School in Massachusetts.  Sixteen girls have confessed to making a pact to get pregnant and succeeded.

The local liberals want to distribute contraceptives at the high school without parental consent, to stem the tide of the four fold increase in teen pregnancy.  This is a ridiculous reaction, of course, considering the nature of the increase.

One teen parent put it succinctly, "they're so excited to finally have someone to love them unconditionally."

Does anyone really think this type of nonsense would occur if these girls had been loved enough by their parents?  Seen the gospel of Jesus Christ lived out in the lives of the adults around them?  Protected from the absurdities of popular culture driven peer group influences by being homeschooled?

Here is the article from Time:

As summer vacation begins, 17 girls at Gloucester High School are expecting babies—more than four times the number of pregnancies the 1,200-student school had last year. Some adults dismissed the statistic as a blip. Others blamed hit movies like Juno and Knocked Up for glamorizing young unwed mothers. But principal Joseph Sullivan knows at least part of the reason there's been such a spike in teen pregnancies in this Massachusetts fishing town. School officials started looking into the matter as early as October after an unusual number of girls began filing into the school clinic to find out if they were pregnant. By May, several students had returned multiple times to get pregnancy tests, and on hearing the results, "some girls seemed more upset when they weren't pregnant than when they were," Sullivan says. All it took was a few simple questions before nearly half the expecting students, none older than 16, confessed to making a pact to get pregnant and raise their babies together. Then the story got worse. "We found out one of the fathers is a 24-year-old homeless guy," the principal says, shaking his head.

The question of what to do next has divided this fiercely Catholic enclave. Even with national data showing a 3% rise in teen pregnancies in 2006—the first increase in 15 years—Gloucester isn't sure it wants to provide easier access to birth control. In any case, many residents worry that the problem goes much deeper. The past decade has been difficult for this mostly white, mostly blue-collar city (pop. 30,000). In Gloucester, perched on scenic Cape Ann, the economy has always depended on a strong fishing industry. But in recent years, such jobs have all but disappeared overseas, and with them much of the community's wherewithal. "Families are broken," says school superintendent Christopher Farmer. "Many of our young people are growing up directionless."

The girls who made the pregnancy pact—some of whom, according to Sullivan, reacted to the news that they were expecting with high fives and plans for baby showers—declined to be interviewed. So did their parents. But Amanda Ireland, who graduated from Gloucester High on June 8, thinks she knows why these girls wanted to get pregnant. Ireland, 18, gave birth her freshman year and says some of her now pregnant schoolmates regularly approached her in the hall, remarking how lucky she was to have a baby. "They're so excited to finally have someone to love them unconditionally," Ireland says. "I try to explain it's hard to feel loved when an infant is screaming to be fed at 3 a.m."

The high school has done perhaps too good a job of embracing young mothers. Sex-ed classes end freshman year at Gloucester, where teen parents are encouraged to take their children to a free on-site day-care center. Strollers mingle seamlessly in school hallways among cheerleaders and junior ROTC. "We're proud to help the mothers stay in school," says Sue Todd, CEO of Pathways for Children, which runs the day-care center.

But by May, after nurse practitioner Kim Daly had administered some 150 pregnancy tests at Gloucester High's student clinic, she and the clinic's medical director, Dr. Brian Orr, a local pediatrician, began to advocate prescribing contraceptives regardless of parental consent, a practice at about 15 public high schools in Massachusetts. Currently Gloucester teens must travel about 20 miles (30 km) to reach the nearest women's health clinic; younger girls have to get a ride or take the train and walk. But the notion of a school handing out birth control pills has met with hostility. Says Mayor Carolyn Kirk: "Dr. Orr and Ms. Daly have no right to decide this for our children." The pair resigned in protest on May 30.

Gloucester's elected school committee plans to vote later this summer on whether to provide contraceptives. But that won't do much to solve the issue of teens wanting to get pregnant. Says rising junior Kacia Lowe, who is a classmate of the pactmakers': "No one's offered them a better option." And better options may be a tall order in a city so uncertain of its future.

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Why Families Considering Homeschooling Should See The Movie "Expelled"

Monday, May 5, 2008 00:35 by Kathy R. Lowers

My husband and I were blessed to see the new Ben Stein move, Expelled, this week.  The part of the movie that moved me the most was when a few professors described how they became evolutionists and how any belief in God was simultaneously extinguished in their lives.  As one professor detailed, it happened when his biology teacher turned him on to evolution and by the end of the course, he was both an atheist and evolutionist. 

I have heard this same story over and over again in the lives of everyday Christian parents.  For example, I used to tutor this very smart boy who took several honors classes – honors physics, honors English, etc.  But I told his Christian mother that I was worried that she was going to send him to a liberal ivy league college as he already had been exposed to so much secular humanism in this public school high school and he had little grasp of a Christian worldview.
 
She dismissed such thoughts, telling me he was the head of the children’s ministry in their church and was active in other church work.  Sure enough, after one semester of college biology in which the professor bulldozed Darwinism into the students, this ignorant and unprepared teen declared to his shocked parents that he was now an atheist. 

You need to homeschool to make sure your children understand Dawinism thoroughly before encountering it from the elites in academia.  And they need to study the vast evidence for God as the creator, the infinitely intelligent designer of the universe. Otherwise, a child weakened by a public school education will likely be seduced by the fantasy of evolution and overwhelmed by the peer pressure to adopt an atheist view of the world.

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California Court Case Separates the Boys from the Men

Thursday, March 13, 2008 23:21 by Charles and Kathy Lowers

Or should I say the case separates the “girly men” from the men, since this is California we are talking about?

It is in times of crisis (or perceived crisis) in the homeschooling community that you see who was merely convinced to homeschool versus who was convicted by the Word of God to do so. 

In case you haven’t heard, a California state appeals court declared in a case involving a homeschooling family that parents do not have a constitutional right to homeschool, the only exception being if the parents hold teaching credentials. 

Homeschoolers are up in arms, and the reverberations are obviously being felt in Sacramento as Arnold has gone so far to declare the ruling “outrageous” and that if the courts don’t overturn it, then he and the other “elected officials” would intervene.  Not entirely comforting I would say, as it is the past and recent actions of these same “elected officials” that have made the public schools in California unbearable cesspools of homosexual indoctrination. 

This case reminds me of an incident few years ago when then Superintendant of Public Instruction of California, Delaine Easton, declared private homeschooling illegal.  Fear coursed through the homeschool community in California.  Those of us in homeschool outreach felt frustrated as the situation was over exaggerated, and not only by the liberals, but by some conservative columnists and organizations as well.  In the trenches, it became harder to convince parents who were on the fence about homeschooling that the option was safe. 

But, as nothing happened, people forgot.  The Democrats pushed through more awful bills that affected education and the flight from public schools resumed its former intensity. 

Let’s hope that a swift end to this awful ruling happens soon.  But let’s say the ruling were to stand. If you are a homeschooling Christian in the Golden State, what would you do?

I’ve had some interesting discussions with homeschoolers on this topic, and their answers reveal how theology affects whether someone starts or continues homeschooling when the right to home educate comes under serious assault.  Would you break “the law” to homeschool?  Some tell me, “No – I would just move to a more homeschool friendly state”. But what if you are poor, like most of us homeschoolers, and could not just up and leave?   Would you reluctantly send your child to the legal, free, but soul-destroying public school or would you defy the authorities and raise your child in the Lord at home?

Many Christians get so frightened when liberals attempt the desire of their darkened hearts – to quash homeschooling or to at least intimidate people out of considering it.  Believers who have been given a warped view of Romans 13 think they must obey any foul “law’ that the despotic think up. 

But from the mother of Moses and her heroic following of God’s Law to the apostles stating, “We must obey God rather than men!'" Scripture is clear that you do not fear the false laws man may conjure up.  Would homeschooling even be legal in the United States had not brave pioneering homeschoolers “illegally” homeschooled in the face of arrests and even jail?

The Bible never gives the civil government the responsibility for educating our children.  That is the parents’ God-given role, and you cannot abdicate that to the government because of something that a human judge, who is in violation of the Word of God, declares.

There is only one Law, God’s Law.  Any “laws” made that violate God’s Law are not laws at all, but lawlessness.  And Christians must follow the Law, no matter what. 

I am sure rumors of this ruling in California will cause the faint hearted or theologically confused to waver about homeschooling.  But the “manly men” remain unshaken.

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Theology Matters: Homeschooling the Distance

Thursday, February 21, 2008 15:03 by Kathy R. Lowers

It is disturbing enough that the majority of Christians still have their children in public schools.  But one does not have to look too far to find a lot of “former homeschoolers” in those public schools as well.  The apparently high attrition rate of homeschoolers is an issue that those of us who homeschool, or encourage others to, need to address. 

Desiring to protect our children from the corrupting public schools or wanting our offspring to get a solid education can be motivating factors for starting homeschooling, but a homeschool built on just these will begin to collapse when the going gets tough -- and it will get tough.

When the tremendous monetary sacrifice of one parent forsaking the working world kicks in, when the hefty spiritual challenge of disciplining and discipling children in the Lord become evident, when the mother feels the serious academic responsibility that largely rests on her shoulders, suddenly sending the children out of the home may appear justifiable.

“Some public schools might be teaching that stuff, but my child will have Ms. Christian as her first grade teacher, and I am going to be a classroom volunteer once a week,” says the wavering homeschooler.  Suddenly the kids “don’t learn as well from me as from a teacher” or “I’m falling behind!”  Or the father feels no compulsion to help, let alone lead the homeschool and he may desire the financial gain and lighter responsibiiites that happen when the wife and children leave for work and school.

From looking at what kept the veteran homeschoolers zealous about being home – often against all odds -- I believe homeschool longevity for the Christian largely comes down to a matter of theology. 

That is, Christians with a vision for their family, for fulfilling God’s purpose for them to be used for His glory, is what every Christian family needs to keep homeschooling. 

Now I will preface this with I know there are Christian families who cannot homeschool --- maybe the mother suffers from mental illness, alcoholism or another serious problem where they should not be with children.  There exits a huge shortage of affordable Christian schools that could be filled with the children from such families. 

But for the majority of Christian families who can create a safe, loving, healthy home where Christ is honored – they are well qualified to raise their children at home, and they need to get that exciting, big picture vision for their family to really go the distance. And this vision should be shared with the children, too.

Recently our family was standing in front of local Planned Parenthood. Not only is it part of their education to learn how to witness for Christ and save babies there, but we point out to them that this location is a “high place”in the land.  Like King Josiah, we are to take down the high places.  “But how, Mom?” they ask.  Through doing the best they can in math, science, writing, reading, etc. – maybe one day they can become a judge who helps to outlaw child killing, or a parent who passes on a life ethic to their children. 

If our only goal is to get our children to recite the Sinner’s Prayer, and just try to survive in a world that is supposed to get worse even in areas where there are many believers, I think we have too small a goal.

Years ago, when my husband and I ran a pro-family ministry on our secular college campus, we called all the Christian groups together for a prayer time.  We then asked them to work on getting Christians elected to school government and to help us get rid of the college-sponsored pornography and homosexual movie nights.  Besides the erroneous view many of them had that Christians should not get involved in politics, many acted like trying to make the campus less evil was somehow unspiritual. 

We challenged them that a place with Christians should be different than a place without them.  And that cleaning up the place, taking dominion in the name of Jesus, was a blessing to those who dwelt there.  To make a long story short, although the movies had been shown for 20 years, God used us to get them out in a matter of months.

My point is, what vision do you have for your family and how God could use all of you for His purpose — and does this motivate you to carry on during the storms?   

If they haven’t already, your kids are going to look at their math one day and ask you, “What is the point?’ You are going to wake up to a mountain of laundry and a day of children needing you and ask yourself, “What is the point?” 

What if you saw it as taking dominion over your household in the name of Jesus.  A household with Christians should look different than a household without.  Cleaning up the place, and teaching the children to do so, is a blessing to those who dwell there. Homeschooling the children in the Lord brings souls to Him and blesses others. And a husband who catches the vision rises up to take his rightful place as head of such a  home. 

Whether you are considering homeschooling, just staring homeschooling or if you have a call on your life to encourage others to homeschool, please take this to heart.  Homeschooling is the harder, but much better road if done the Lord’s way and with a solid vision for victory in Jesus.

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Illiterate Teaches High School for 17 Years

Tuesday, February 12, 2008 16:37 by Charles B. Lowers

You can read John Corcoran's story out of San Diego here.  It is an intriguing older story -- if just for the fact that he has made a cottage industry of his shame, complete with a foundation and books -- which might be the only reason this got any press after all these years.

Nevertheless, I will use this story just the same to reiterate that you can homeschool your children better than the public school system -- academically, spiritually, and socially.

I will add that I spent a short time as a literacy tutor, volunteering in Washington when I was in the Army.  You might consider it a good homeschool activity for your older teens (under proper supervision).  There are literacy organizations in nearly every community in the country.  And, given the decrepit state of education in our nation, literacy volunteers are sorely needed.

It is an opportunity to teach someone in need of a functional skill and an opportunity to be salt and light.  You could even start a program at your church. 

When Kathy and I lived in Irvine, we saw an opportunity to reach the large Persian and Asian populations for Christ by starting free ESL (English as a Second Language) classes at our church.  It was great time of fellowship, witnessing, and meeting new friends.

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